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by Mark
Lamendola based on input from Patrice Belle Isle You may think you're ready to have a baby. But have you thought about it enough? Have you thought about the important life aspects in the list below? You are contemplating bringing another person into the world, and then being responsible for that person. If your decision is based on emotion rather than critical issues, it is probably the wrong decision. Keep in mind that just because one or more of these issues means now is not the right time for you to have a baby, that doesn't mean you should never have one. What you want to do is solve these problems before a baby depends on you.
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More thoughts on when to have a babyThis whole subject brings up the question of whether to add yet another baby to our grossly overpopulated planet in the first place. Don't do it for religious reasons. In many religious cults, it's a matter of doctrine for the adherents to breed large families. The purpose of this doctrine is to keep the adherents poor, and poverty is a proven way to keep adherents in a cult. A person truly concerned about morality would not have a large family, considering the consequences to what is presumably God's creation. Don't do it to pass on your family name. This particular bit of vanity is ridiculous, when you think about it. The "end of the line" is not something to even worry about. Family names are an artificial construct, and these lines can end for many reasons. Don't do it to be fulfilled. If you "need" to have kids to "be fulfilled" then something is wrong. If you are bringing children into this world, you should do so with the goal of rearing them into happy, well-adjusted adults. If your emotional well being is their burden, your kids will be psychotic instead. Don't do that to them. |
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