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This page is for those with loved ones who have AIDS.
AIDS: Ten Tips |
by Mark
Lamendola
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Handling ignorant peopleParents of children who have contracted AIDS through blood transfusions have had to deal with ignorant people who have the zany idea that God is punishing the children for some sin or another. So they make stupid remarks to the parents about this. In other situations, gay-bashing is the "help" of choice even if the AIDS victims isn't gay. What can you do when people like this accost you? Not much. If they were reasonable, they wouldn't say such ignorant, stupid things. Just ignore them. They are not worth a response, and if you give one they will not listen. Don't let others rattle you. Some people will try to rattle you, for whatever reason. Often, it's because they have control issues. Some people may rattle you unintentionally, because they lack sensitivity or are just ignorant. In either case, the opinions of these people are just their opinions. Their opinions do not make you wrong. You do not need the approval of these people, so don't try to obtain it by arguing your case or defending yourself. If you have "friends" who are this way, you may wish to have a discussion to clear the air. If that's the case, don't get dragged into an argument and don't get angry. And don't forget that you can always end toxic relationships and you can always make new friends. |
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