- Product highlight
 - Brainpower tip
 - Time tip
 - Finance tip
  
 
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- Security tip
 - Health tip/Fitness tip
 - Miscellany
 - Thought for the day
 
 
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1. Product Highlights
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Calcium: Ensure you have its benefits |  
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 Your body can absorb very little calcium from bone 
meal, oyster shell, or elemental calcium supplements. But, our 
calcium supplement provides the right combination of ingredients so your body 
can maximize calcium absorption. You need calcium for strong bones and teeth, 
proper brain functioning, and fat loss. 
  Also, ask any cancer specialist about calcium and 
cancer: this is a must-have!  | 
 
 
 
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2. Brainpower tip
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 Make a point of properly vetting information 
sources. In this mini-article, I can't sufficiently address this topic. But 
it's an extremely important one. Most of us form opinions based on bad 
information from sources that are, at best, dubious. This leads to erroneous 
conclusions, and subsequently to bad choices with negative implications. 
Sometimes, very expensive negative implications. 
 Below are questions to ask when vetting your 
sources (you will find that the major search engines look for many of these 
same things when establishing authoritativeness). Please note that you must 
put the answer to each question into the composite profile you develop for 
that source: 
- Is there an agenda? For example, if the 
tobacco industry releases a report showing "fact" X, you should suspect 
their motivation has less to do with fact than with furthering their own 
agenda.
 
  - What is the motivation for the source 
that is providing this information? For example, someone selling X has a 
vested interest in slanting the information about X into a positive 
light. So, why is this source providing information on X?
 
  - What are the credentials of this source? 
Jim Bob Basement Blogger may write a piece that seems to justify your 
suspicions on subject X. So, you automatically want to believe JB. But 
what makes JB an authority on the subject? Do a little digging, and you 
find JB doesn't know Jack Sh-- about the subject--he has no record of 
formal study, hasn't published any peer-reviewed papers on it, and has 
no recognition as an authority. He's just another blowhard wanting to be 
seen as an expert.
 
  - What are the credentials of this source 
(part 2)? Dr. Evan Moore did his PhD thesis on the subject, is an 
acknowledged researcher on the subject, works in the field pertinent to 
that subject, has 20 years of experience, cites other authorities, has 
been an expert witness on the subject, and so on.
 
  - What are the credentials of this source 
(part 3)? The health and fitness area is full of frauds. One of my 
techniques is to look at who is living proof of knowing what they're 
talking about and who is just a BS artist. This is why my photo is 
posted.
 
  - What are the credentials of this source 
(part 4)? Does this person have endorsements from other experts? This is 
a huge selling point for Google. In my own case, my
www.supplecity.com site has 
articles from recognized authorities and those articles combine with my 
own to form a cohesive, coherent whole.
 
  - Are you allowing your own bias to lend 
authority to the source? People have a strong habit of using only 
information sources that support their own views. The choir wants to be 
preached to. For example, liberals read newspapers while conservatives 
tune them out. Newspapers are extremely left-wing. The bias is 
self-reinforcing.
 
  - Does the source claim to have "secret" 
information? You'll find this in many conspiracy theories. A big red 
flag, here. If the information is "secret," it's probably false.
 
  - A clarifying comment on conspiracy 
theories: Quite often, this label is used to discredit a valid viewpoint 
that just runs counter to what a government or other power player wants 
you to think. Many so-called theories are not theory at all. But don't 
assume the label conversely lends any authority to the claims being 
made. Evaluate the claims on their own merits.
 
  - s there a Chicken Little message, here? 
A note of underlying danger and alarmism? This is a red flag, and it's 
telling you to look more closely at confirming evidence from other 
sources. Nearly all of the wrong information you will find is hinting at 
some great evil being perpetrated by secret, but very powerful people. 
That's your first tip that the information is probably false.
 
  - How does the information compare to what 
you already know? For example, we can look at the Periodic Table of 
Elements and see where fluorine is. Flourine is highly toxic and highly 
reactive. Yet, it's added to our drinking water. This "what we already 
know" lends credibility to the "conspiracy theory" that fluoride in our 
water is not a smart idea. What other information can you find on this 
topic?
 
  - How does the information compare to 
common sense? For example, we have all heard countless anecdotes (an 
anecdote is, by definition, a personal account of an event) about space 
aliens. Have you noticed that these invariably involve kidnapping and 
anal probing? Now, let's apply common sense here--from the aliens' point 
of view. You're going to go through the huge expense and effort of 
traveling to another planet. Once there, you keep yourself hidden from 
anyone who could provide a meaningful cultural exchange. Instead, you go 
sneaking around sticking things up people's butts. Unless your entire 
planet is occupied by IRS workers, this simply makes no sense.
 
 
 These questions address just a few of the 
techniques for vetting information sources. There are several thick books on 
the subject. If you have a degree in philosophy or history, you have read 
several of them. Many of these are timeless classics. 
 Here are a few more contemporary tomes: 
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3. Time Tip
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 Most of us budget our money, but not our time. 
But simply budgeting your time is not enough. After all, the U.S. 
CONgress has a budget--and look at how they've managed to spend the USA 
into a $9 trillion hole.  This shows 
how incompetent they are, despite "earning" 5 times as much as their 
average constituent. It also shows that CONgress does not represent the 
people who allegedly put them in office at voting time (if you vote for 
an incumbent, you are probably making a huge mistake). 
 Those of us living in the USA are paying 
an enormous tuition for lessons in stupidity. Let's not throw that away. 
 We can apply a few lessons here to time 
management. If we take some pages from CONgress' own playbook, invert 
the entries from "what not to do," and modify them for time management, 
we get some very good advice: 
- Figure out what it is you really 
want to do. You can't do everything or please everyone. So, identify 
what is your purpose in being. Make everything else support that.
 
  - Determine your resources. Each day 
has 24 hours (my apologies to astronomers for the lack of precision, 
there). The typical person needs about a third of them for sleeping 
(some people need a little less, some a little more--and most of us 
don't get nearly enough). You cannot get water from a dry well. Once 
you use up your time, it's gone.
 
  - Ignore the shrill voices. There is 
no law requiring you to answer the phone just because it rings. 
There is no law requiring you to stop what you're doing just because 
someone or something distracts you. You do not have to please those 
who insist on monopolizing or wasting your time.
 
  - Stick to your principles. Stay true 
to who you are and the principles you hold. This doesn't mean you 
can't change your views, opinions, tastes, habits, and so on. But it 
does mean you should not attempt to change the stripes of the tiger. 
Surely, you've come to realize your momma didn't raise no fool. You 
know right from wrong. Let this guide you.
 
  - Don't spend what you don't have. 
This is a key to time management. Many times, people will spend 
sleep time, putting them into a counter-productive sleep debt 
situation. And this debt can actually have a foreclosure--we know 
this from reams of evidence. For example, there's a spike of traffic 
deaths and industrial accidents for three weeks following the clock 
change imposed on us by Daylight Wasting Time. That same foreclosure 
can happen at any point in the year.
 
  - Don't spend what you don't have 
(part 2). It's easy to over-commit. The standard response to this is 
to still try to do everything--and, consequently, do many things 
poorly. It is far more ethical and productive to back out of a 
commitment. Simply come clean and say, "I need to resign from this 
committee. I want to do that, rather than hold the office and do a 
lousy job. I'm just over-extended."
 
  - Don't spend what you don't have 
(part 3). When our schedules are too full, it's tempting to shove 
our responsibilities off on other people. In marriages, this is the 
norm. Note to men: Wake up! Your wife is not your default task 
absorber. She has a life, too--respect that. Don't delude yourself 
into thinking that barely pitching in around the house means you are 
"sharing" the load. 
  
Advice for married couples: Make a list of all tasks needed to 
maintain the home, rear the kids*, and so on. Note the hours 
required to perform each task. Then, hire an accountant to review 
the list and provide feedback on who is doing their fair share. Why 
an accountant? Very simple: This is a matter of resource allocation. 
And that subject is right up an accountant's alley. If you perform 
an objective, measured analysis of who is doing what, you will find 
some eye-popping revelations. It's a bad idea to do this just 
once--that leads to entrenched expectations and lack of cooperation. 
Instead, do it twice a year with the goal of seeing if you 
personally are doing your fair share rather than seeing if your 
partner needs to do more. You may think this exercise is too 
cold-hearted, but I don't think it's exactly loving to behave in a 
way that is unfair to the other person. Get the facts out on the 
table! 
 
 * We rear children, we raise animals--so 
many people are correct when saying they "raise" their kids. But I will 
assume our readers actually rear their children to be civilized, 
responsible adults.  |   
 
 
  
4. Finance tip
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 The tax code does provide some ways to get tax-free 
income, without the risk of tax shelters or the complexity of "creative" 
investments. If you live in a country that is so barbaric it has an 
income tax (e.g., the USA), these tips apply to you. Based on the 
current insanity that is our federal income tax code.... You do not need a tax shelter to reduce your taxes, Part Five. - The AT* does allow interest-free loans. 
These can provide the borrower with cash at no tax cost to the borrower 
or the lender. But, there are limits. Generally, a loan may be 
interest-free and tax-free if it's for an amount of less than $10,000.
 
  - If the loan is for more than $10,000, 
the AT will determine the interest that "should be" on the loan if said 
interest is too low or isn't there. The lender must then pay on the 
taxable income represented by the AT's "imputed" interest (to the extend 
that the borrower has investment income.
 
  - Generally, interest-free loans are also 
tax-free if they are under $10,000 or the borrower has no investment 
income.
 
  - Do not attempt to game the system by 
breaking a larger loan into smaller loans that are individually below 
the $10k limit. The AT will count all the loans as one. Also, don't try 
to "wash" the loans. Such washes are very easy to track backwards--once 
you're caught, you could be looking at prison time.
 
 
 As with all financial transactions, don't do things for the tax 
motivation. Do them for the business motivation, and then avail yourself 
of the tax breaks. That is your first line of defense in staying out of 
tax trouble. 
 Remember, the AT can void the statute of limitations on the 
flimsiest of grounds, and assess you whatever interest and penalties 
they feel will most painfully destroy you. Following statute or 
Congressional intent is not in their game plan. In their sick, twisted minds, 
they get a thrill out of inflicting massive damage on other people. Don't give them an excuse to do it to you. 
Once the "Borg" locks onto you, getting rid of them is almost 
impossible. 
 In our next issue, we'll present more ways you can reduce your taxes 
without shelters or other dubious means. 
 * American Taliban.  |   
 
  
5. Security tip
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Summer (here in the northern hemisphere) is 
traditionally a time of travel. That's because kids are released from 
their mandatory babysitting, brainwashing, anti-learning, 
disease-spreading centers and put back in the custody of their parents. 
And now with our "no child gets ahead" policy that further ties the 
hands of teachers, things are more fun than ever. 
Thus, everyone needs a vacation. Some people, 
addicted to stress, choose to fly to their vacation destination. Of 
course, this generally makes more sense than driving if your destination 
is Hawaii. Nonetheless, many people choose the torturous discomfort of 
air travel over other methods. 
That's not a problem, from a security 
standpoint--other than the fact you're disarmed before getting in a 
metal tube full of 300 strangers. Note: Your laptop is a potent weapon. 
Buy a scrap of wood that size or get a martial arts plastic breakaway 
board and practice with chairs set up in your living room. 
The security issue in we're going to look at is 
those luggage tags. Here's the drill: 
- You dutifully fill out each blank, including 
your name, address and phone number.
 - Another person, using a cellphone camera, 
photographs your tag while noting that with the kids and all that 
luggage, you will be gone for a while.
 - You come home, after a week of fighting with 
your spouse and kids, only to find your house has been cleaned out. 
Everything you owned is gone.
 
 
To avoid this kind of massive theft, don't fill 
out those tags in a way that advertises where you live. Here are some 
tips: 
- Use the address of a friend who does not live 
near your house (a thief could drive by your neighbor's address and 
then notice your house looks like someone's gone).
 - Use the address of your employer.
 - Use your employer's phone number.
 - Use your cellphone number, not the number 
that's in the phone book.
 
 
And, of course, don't leave a voice mail at home 
or the office announcing you will be out until such and such a date.  |   
   
6. Health tip/Fitness tips
With spring arriving here in the northern hemisphere, 
I've been bombarded for help with "losing weight." People have all kinds 
of screwy ideas about this. Here are some comments that answer many of 
these screwy ideas:- Don't try to "lose weight." This is a false 
metric. What you want to lose is fat. This isn't mere 
semantics. Until you understand this, you will have completely the 
wrong mindset and your efforts will result only in frustration.
 
  - Fats don't make you fat. In fact, you need 
fat to burn fat. You need the fats you find in eggs, nuts, and 
cooking oils. Eat free-range eggs (very high in Omega 3 fats, which 
are quite good for you), fresh nuts (as opposed to the stale or 
processed ones in the typical supermarket), and quality oils (as 
opposed to the cheap hot-processed or improperly packaged or stored 
ones in the typical grocery store).
 
  - Carbs don't make you fat. In fact, you need 
carbs to burn carbs. And to burn fat. There are people who live on 
nothing but chips and soda--very high in carbs. Yet, they are 
skinny. They aren't healthy or lean--they are just skinny and 
undermuscled with unhealthy organs. The point here is you can be 
thin as a rail, even if you eat mostly carbs.
 
  - Don't waste your time counting calories. Most 
people never do this right, and the whole process turns into an 
excuse to overeat. It doesn't work.
 
  - You got too fat one bite at a time. You lose 
that fat the same way.
 
  - You cannot exercise off the results of 
overeating, despite the hype from gyms that sign people up to 
exercise incorrectly. What you can do is not overeat in the first 
place.
 
  - Right-size your body by right-sizing your 
meals.
 
  - Single digit body fat on six meals a day. The 
key is small meals. 
 
  - You can become obese, even if all you eat is 
bean sprouts. Quantity matters. 
 
  - What you eat determines how healthy you are. 
How much you eat determines how fat you are. Of course, if you eat 
more calorie-dense foods, you get fatter faster. 
 
  - A great body is built in the kitchen, not in 
the gym. But the process begins at the grocery store.
 
  - Are you eating at restaurants and trying to 
lose fat? If so, I wonder if you drive a car with one foot on the 
gas and one on the brake. Unless you are in the habit of scraping 
2/3 of your meal off your plate as soon as your meal arrives, 
throwing that away, and eating only what is left, you will have to 
choose between eating out and eating right.
 
  - There is no obesity virus. This is a lame 
hypothesis (it's not even to theory status--look up both words in 
the dictionary) designed to make an excuse for overeating.
 
  - Yes, there is a fat gene. I have it. I'm not 
fat. Genetics does not cause obesity. Overeating does.
 
  - Regimens that involve food combinations, food 
timing, and other gyrations don't--in themselves--cause you to 
right-size your body (or if they do, there is nothing credible that 
proves they do). The fussing over following these regimens 
makes you more aware of your food, and thus more likely to reduce 
portion size.
  
One such plan, for example, says not to mix beans and rice. But this 
is actually an ideal combination because it makes a completed 
protein. Another plan claims your blood type determines the kind of 
food you should eat--and it has a seemingly great explanation for 
this. But there's no authoritative proof for this plan anywhere. 
These kinds of plans work because they make you stop and think about 
what you're eating--rather than just mindlessly shoveling it down as 
most people do. 
  - A gastric bypass is a dumb idea. You did not 
get fat because your body has normal plumbing. You got fat because 
you ate too much. So the fix isn't to mutilate your body. The fix is 
to eat less.
 
  - You do not have to starve to eat right. But 
eating right may mean being a bit hungry at times. Deal with it. 
You're not going to starve, just because you're hungry. Learn the 
difference.
 
  - Do not keep a food diary. This is looking 
backwards. Instead, write down what you are going to eat. Plan all 
six of your meals each day. Look at what your plan says, and bring 
only that to the table. No seconds, no extras. This is a proven 
method for losing fat. If you want to right-size your body, 
right-size your meals this way. You automatically exclude hunger 
from the portion size selection equation this way.
 
  - Don't listen to people brag about the great 
results they had with Diet X. People have a way of exaggerating 
their successes. Diets don't work, and we all know that. Why do so 
many people persist in this form of self-delusional desperation?
 
  - Right-sizing your meals will right-size your 
body and this means you will right-size your healthcare costs. Most 
of what we call "healthcare" is disease care. True healthcare 
happens in the kitchen, not in the doctor's office or hospital.
 
 
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7. Miscellany
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The average housefly lives for one month. The average 
temporary tax measure goes on forever.
 
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