Unable to finish a project? Get started on one? The cause is rarely a lack of discipline or organization--it's nearly always something much deeper. We'll guide you through rooting that out and getting on with your life. Get started conquering your procrastination, today. This self-paced course requires no textbook or instructor.
When you just can't seem to get started on things, or to finish what you have started, something is wrong. Very wrong.While putting off something that needs doing may feel like it's sparing you pain, the reality is things will only be worse if you wait. This is why, when you finally to get around to doing that task you have put off it seems so hard and you feel justified for waiting. Had you not waited, the job would have been much easier.
The same applies to other things you put off. These include saying you're sorry, learning a new skill, exercising, going to the doctor, and getting together with a good friend.
This condition of putting things off to the point that doing is detrimental has a name. It's called "procrastination." And it never makes your life better. It can make your life much less pleasant.
It's a maladaptive, self-defeating behavior. The paradox here is the more you engage in procrastination to avoid unpleasant or difficult tasks or choices, the more unpleasant or difficult they become.
People suffering from this condition are convinced that they are successfully managing things when the opposite is actually true. The compulsive procrastinator isn't avoiding problems, but is instead letting those problems gather strength and be far more difficult to handle.
But it's not just the outward manifestations of this particular issue that cause problems for you. Because the physical manifestation arises from an inner emotional problem, your compulsion exerts itself in subtle (and not so subtle) ways in your relationships. This undermines marriages, friendships, and careers in a multitude of ways. None of which you would suffer, if you overcame this compulsion.
Yet, you keep doing it. Why? This course will show you how to discover the answer. Your compulsion is a response, and if you understand how to uncover what's driving that response you can cure the compulsion.
Is procrastination holding you back? Don't wait to solve this problem! With this course, you can put procrastination behind you.
Estimated completion time for the Behavior: Putting Procrastination Behind You, Now course: 15 one-hour sessions.
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You need to overcome the consequences of this self-defeating behavior. This Behavior: Putting Procrastination Behind You, Now will help you do exactly that.
What sort of consequences are we talking about? They may include:
People don't like you. If you feel isolated or disrespected, your self-defeating behavior is probably why--and you can change that.
You don't like yourself, because of your self-defeating behavior.
Your defense mechanism is to engage in your self-defeating behavior. This sets up a self-sustaining vicious cycle, in which you are currently trapped (this course teaches you how to use an appropriate response and break the cycle).
The dynamic of many relationships with others is that of a contest rather than one of cooperation. This means others fight you, one way or another.
Your response of your self-defeating behavior merely fuels this, creating a self-sustaining vicious cycle.
People often avoid any real discussion with you (on specific topics that trigger your self-defeating behavior), because they already know how it will go.
Others may give in to avoid triggering your self-defeating behavior, but later they find ways to disagree silently and/or undermine you (the are exhibiting passive-aggressive behavior, which is self-defeating for them).
You may have the appearance of "winning" or getting your way, but you actually lose it in terms of eventual outcome.
People who interact with you feel almost obligated to work against you. And they may not even realize it consciously. Your self-defeating behavior has tapped a primal self-defense mechanism in them.
Folks who could volunteer to help you, don't.
Your self-defeating behavior turns them off or you send involuntarily negative signals because you are relying on your ineffective self-defeating behavior instead of using effective coping skills. This course will show you how to use those skills.
How It Works
This Behavior: Putting Procrastination Behind You, Now course follows the same protocol used in short-term professional psychotherapy. The notable exception is this course is self-treatment. Whereas you could expect 4 or 5 one-hour sessions with a psychotherapist, the self-treatment approach will require more self-initiative. But you won't be paying $200 per hour for five hours this way, either.
As with any form of psychotherapy, your journey along the healing path may not end with this course. However, note these two facts about this kind of treatment:
The success rate is very high for people who make an honest effort to work through the therapy.
The therapy lays the groundwork for a stronger method of treatment, if needed.
This Behavior: Putting Procrastination Behind You, Now course is one of a series developed by Dr. Jay Prince, licensed psychotherapist. Dr. Prince passed away in 2001. A rapid cancer claimed him well before old age. During his lifetime, Dr. Prince treated many patients who needed to overcome a problem through psychotherapy. Dr. Prince also had several corporate clients, who came to him for solving dysfunctional situations within their companies.
Dr. Prince changed the lives of many of our customers, giving them new direction and new hope. In his private practice, Dr. Prince helped individuals overcome problems that kept them from leading the fulfilling lives they deserved. He also consulted to corporations, helping them to develop more humane, rewarding, and productive workplaces.
Working with Dr. Prince was a pleasure, knowing him was an honor. He wanted his courses priced so the average person could easily buy one and begin the journey to recovery.
The series of behavior courses is licensed exclusively to Mindconnection, LLC. His portion of the proceeds now go to his widow and children.
Going this route--the self-treatment via Dr. Prince's course--will save you money for three reasons:
You pay a one-time fee for the Behavior: Putting Procrastination Behind You, Now course, rather than $200 an hour for 4 to 6 hours
If this therapy solves your problem, that's your total cost.
If short-term therapy can't solve your problem, you have determined that without spending several hundred dollars..
It helped me a lot, once I got around to doing it, 10.26.2009
Reviewer: Sarah Pollard (Chicago, IL)
Sounds amazing, but I first decided on this procrastination course back in 2004. I didn't buy it until 2007. Then I didn't start on it until March of this year.
But immediately, I started to understand what was wrong. This was very helpful. The downside is this course doesn't give you any kind of a quick start so you can actually get going.
My first exercise in overcoming my procrastination was an object lesson in this!
One reason for delay previously was the high cost involved, which thise course overcame so in that way the "get to it" was built in.
BTW, I decided this morning to go back and write a review, and I did not put that off. Success!!!