Time Tips: Keeping Others from Wasting Your Time Tip #3

Have you ever had to deal with someone over a dispute and after "taking all day" felt you got nowhere? That's a common problem.

What you have to do is focus on the core issue. Just interrupt and say, "Look, we both want to resolve this dispute. The only real issue here is X. Until we resolve that, I'm not going to talk about anything else. It would be pointless to do so."

When you feel something is dragging on and getting nowhere, that is happening because nobody has really defined the terms of the debate. So, define them. And then hold the other party to those terms.

Here's another scenario. Bob has crafted an opinion based on misinformation. You know this, and you disagree with Bob. You've told him you will have to agree to disagree, and you don't want to "go there" anymore. Yet every time you talk to Bob, he wants to argue his opinion at you. Bob is simply wasting your time with his stupidity. This really isn't about Bob's wanting to understand the truth and your needing to be persuasive. It's about Bob's wanting to save face because he knows he's wrong. You have several options:

Just agree with Bob, so he shuts up about it. This isn't honest.
Find an article, from an unimpeachable source, that authoritatively settles the argument. This may cause Bob to counter with poor sources of information.
Tell Bob you are finding his pursuit of this annoying to you and demeaning to him, and you want him to stop. This attacks the core problem, head-on.

A great way many businesses are managing time is using software. There are many forms of time and attendance software which allows managers to track and monitor employees time usage.

More thoughts on time management

The phrase "time management" is an unfortunate language quirk. You can't really manage time. It just is. You can't gain time, create time, or even lose time. Time is what it is, regardless of what we do.

It would be better to say "time allocation" or "activity management" "time usage" or some other phraseology to indicate that it's not time itself you're managing but how you use the time that exists. But we'll use the common terminology here to avoid confusion.

Some things time management is not:

Being more efficient. Suppose you become very efficient at making buggy whips. Does this fact mean you are managing your time well?
Getting more done in a given amount of time. Getting more done of what? And to what degree of quality? If you rake the leaves on a lawn from one side to the other all day long, does that mean you are a good time manager?
Being able to juggle multiple priorities. Instead of juggling priorities, assign priorities. First tend to the urgent things, then the most important things.
Mastering multi-tasking. This concept conflicts with what we know about the human brain. If you buy into this self-defeating, time-wasting, quality-killing ideology, you might also be interested in practicing solo flight by flapping your arms frantically.
Working faster. No, this mode is how you make mistakes that you subsequently have to spend more time fixing.

Some things good time management involves:

Deciding what to do. This is trickier than it sounds. Which is why there are time management experts.
Deciding what not to do. This is even trickier than deciding what to do. Which is why there are time managers and why discipline is a huge, huge factor in accomplishing this.
Deciding what to do when, and in what order. In essence, prioritization.
Determining the scope, goals, and metrics for each activity you undertake. In this area, we the find most room for improvement. Precision here allows you to avoid waste on the one hand, and falling short on the other.
Planning out the work, task, project, or activity such that you determine the necessary steps to quality completion. That is, what must you do to meet the intended goal and quality metrics?
Identifying unnecessary steps. Get this right, and you can cut your wasted hours significantly.
Figuring out what resources to use. Not all resources applicable to a task are equal. Picking the right tool for the job saves time, improves quality, and makes life less stressful.

We've highlighted only some of the factors involved in good time management. We actually teach extreme time management, which is a methodology that allows you to make effective use of your time almost second nature. You don't need a complicated system. Our system puts many of the variables on autopilot, so you have more time to do what you need to do. Our system goes way beyond most other systems in results, yet is far simpler.

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