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By Paul B. Thornton, President, Be the Leader
Associates,
http://www.betheleader.com Fortune
magazine once published an article entitled “The Best Advice I Ever
Got.” It was a great article that offered wit and wisdom about achieving
business success. I liked it so much, that it motivated me to produce my
newest book, Leadership—Best Advice I Ever Got, which describes the best
leadership advice 136 successful CEOs, coaches, consultants, professors,
managers, executives, presidents, politicians, and religious leaders
received that most helped them become effective and successful leaders.
Here are 7 secrets to leadership
success
1. Leadership is about making things happen
If you want to make something happen with your
life – in school, in your profession or in your community, do it.
Perceived obstacles crumble against persistent desire. John Baldoni,
Author, Leadership Communication Consultant and Founder of Baldoni
Consulting LLC, shared this advice that had come from his father, a
physician. He taught him the value of persistence. At the same time, his
mother taught him compassion for others. Therefore, persistence for your
cause should not be gained at the expense of others. Another bit of
leadership wisdom!
2. Listen and understand the issue, then lead
Time and time again we have all been told, "God
gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason"...or as Stephen Covey
said..."Seek to understand, rather than be understood." As a leader,
listening first to the issue, then trying to coach, has been the most
valuable advice that Cordia Harrington, President and CEO of Tennessee
Bun Company has been given.
3. Answer the three questions everyone within
your organization wants answers to
What the people of an organization want from their
leader are answers to the following: Where are we going? How are we
going to get there? What is my role? Kevin Nolan, President & Chief
Executive Officer of Affinity Health Systems, Inc. believes the more
clarity that can be added to each of the three questions, the better the
result.
4. Master the goals that will allow you to work
anywhere in today’s dynamic business world
Debbe Kennedy, President, CEO and Founder of
Global Dialogue Center and Leadership Solutions Companies, and author of
Action Dialogues and Breakthrough once shared this piece of advice that
was instrumental in shaping her direction, future and achievements.
She was a young manager at IBM just promoted to
her first staff assignment in a regional marketing office. For reasons
she can’t explain, one of her colleagues named Bookie called her into
his office while she was visiting his location. He then began to offer
unsolicited advice, but advice that now stays fresh in her mind. He
mentioned that jobs, missions, titles and organizations would come and
go as business is dynamic-- meaning it is always changing. He advised
her not to focus your goals toward any of these, but instead learn to
master the skills that will allow you to work anywhere.
He was talking about four skills:
- The ability to develop an idea
- Effectively plan for its implementation
- Execute second-to-none
- Achieve superior results time after time.
With this in mind, Kennedy advises readers to seek
jobs and opportunities with this in mind. Forget what others do. Work to
be known for delivering excellence. It speaks for itself and it opens
doors.
5. Be curious
Curiosity is a prerequisite to continuous
improvement and even excellence. The person who gave Mary Jean Thornton,
Former Executive Vice President & CIO, The Travelers this advice urged
her to study people, processes, and structures. He inspired her to be
intellectually curious. He often reminded Thornton that making progress,
in part, was based upon thinking. She has learned to apply this notion
of intellectual curiosity by thinking about her organization’s future,
understanding the present, and knowing and challenging herself to
creatively move the people and the organization closer to its vision.
6. Listen to both sides of the argument
The most valuable advice Brian P. Lees,
Massachusetts State Senator and Senate Minority Leader ever received
came from his mentor, United States Senator Edward W. Brooke III. He
told him to listen to all different kinds of people and ideas. Listening
only to those who share your background and opinions can be imprudent.
It is important to respect your neighbors’ rights to their own views.
Listening to and talking with a variety of people, from professors to
police officers, from senior citizens to schoolchildren, is essential
not only to be a good leader in business, but to also be a valuable
member within your community.
7. Prepare, prepare, prepare
If you fail to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
If one has truly prepared and something goes wrong the strength of the
rest of what you've prepared for usually makes this something easier to
handle without crisis and panic. One of the best pieces of advice Dave
Hixson, Men’s Varsity Basketball Coach at Amherst College has ever
received and continues to use and pass on is this anonymous
quote—“Preparation is the science of winning."
Along with this are two expressions from Rick
Pitino's book Success is a Choice, which speaks to preparation. Hixson
asks his teams every year: "Do you deserve to win?" and "Have you done
the work?" This speaks to the importance of preparation toward achieving
your final goal. If you haven't done the work (preparation) the answer
to the second question is an easy "no!"
Great advice comes from many sources – parents,
other relatives, consultants, bosses, co-workers, mentors, teachers,
coaches, and friends. The important point to remember is to stay open,
listen to everyone, but also develop your own leadership style.
Paul B. Thornton is President, Be the Leader
Associates,
http://www.betheleader.com, and author of seven books on management
and leadership. See his latest book,
Leadership-Best Advice I Ever Got. |