Does your messiness hurt
your image and waste your time?
This course teaches you how to identify, then change,
what it is about you that makes you compulsively create and leave messes.
"The Slob"
Learning to moderate slovenliness and improve cooperation
from others in the process
Introduction
Let's begin by reviewing the actual "Scenario"
that drew you to this course. It's a description of what we'll call
your "self-defeating pattern." Despite many attempts to "get
organized" and "clean up," and even though people have
made jokes and disparaging remarks about your messiness, you persist
in the behavior. As wild as that seems, the idea that people will keep
repeating something they know is working against them is not unusual.
In fact, everyone does it or has done it. Here's another look at the
problem:
You feel you are involved in too many things to
take the time to clean up - you have enough stress without dealing with
that, too. Besides, you're getting by just fine without becoming a "neatnik."
It doesn't make sense for you to put things away, only to have to get
them out again because time is wasted in the process and you already
have enough to do. Some people describe you as a slob, though, and that
bothers you. It also bothers you to have to ask other people for a document
because your copy is buried somewhere in the many piles around you.
You enjoy just doing things and would rather do meaningful activity
than cleanup work.
You are interested in results and progress, and
- while you'd like to be neater - you don't want to take the time or
invest the energy to do it. Too often, however, others get the wrong
idea about you. They sometimes see you as undependable, unmotivated,
undisciplined, and inefficient. They think you may have a tendency to
just let things go, rather than see them through. Some are repulsed
by your sloppiness and don't share their ideas with you as readily,
while others have become downright pushy with you. The result is the
team isn't functioning the way you meant for it to. Your efforts to
focus on what is important to you are actually backfiring.
Its enough to make you squirm a bit, but thats
only because it rings true. The good news is, you can learn
how to make some serious and lasting changes in that pattern. In
this course, you learn to moderate compulsiveness and improve cooperation
from others in the process. A licensed psychologist and business consultant
takes you, step-by-step, through your self-improvement process.
This self-improvement process is exactly the same
process you would go through in professional treatment, but you do it
yourself (or with a friend) at a much lower cost. The course consists
of a guidance document you read as you work through the underlying issues
of your problem.
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