Behaviors Connection: How to stop being a slob

Does your messiness hurt your image and waste your time?

This course teaches you how to identify, then change, what it is about you that makes you compulsively create and leave messes.

"The Slob"

Learning to moderate slovenliness and improve cooperation from others in the process

Introduction

Let's begin by reviewing the actual "Scenario" that drew you to this course. It's a description of what we'll call your "self-defeating pattern." Despite many attempts to "get organized" and "clean up," and even though people have made jokes and disparaging remarks about your messiness, you persist in the behavior. As wild as that seems, the idea that people will keep repeating something they know is working against them is not unusual. In fact, everyone does it or has done it. Here's another look at the problem:

You feel you are involved in too many things to take the time to clean up - you have enough stress without dealing with that, too. Besides, you're getting by just fine without becoming a "neatnik." It doesn't make sense for you to put things away, only to have to get them out again because time is wasted in the process and you already have enough to do. Some people describe you as a slob, though, and that bothers you. It also bothers you to have to ask other people for a document because your copy is buried somewhere in the many piles around you. You enjoy just doing things and would rather do meaningful activity than cleanup work.

You are interested in results and progress, and - while you'd like to be neater - you don't want to take the time or invest the energy to do it. Too often, however, others get the wrong idea about you. They sometimes see you as undependable, unmotivated, undisciplined, and inefficient. They think you may have a tendency to just let things go, rather than see them through. Some are repulsed by your sloppiness and don't share their ideas with you as readily, while others have become downright pushy with you. The result is the team isn't functioning the way you meant for it to. Your efforts to focus on what is important to you are actually backfiring.

It’s enough to make you squirm a bit, but that’s only because it rings true. The good news is, you can learn how to make some serious and lasting changes in that pattern. In this course, you learn to moderate compulsiveness and improve cooperation from others in the process. A licensed psychologist and business consultant takes you, step-by-step, through your self-improvement process.

This self-improvement process is exactly the same process you would go through in professional treatment, but you do it yourself (or with a friend) at a much lower cost. The  course consists of a guidance document you read as you work through the underlying issues of your problem.

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