...with our behavior modification courses. Developed by Dr. Jay Prince, they are based ontalk therapy, which has helped millions of people regain control of their lives. With these courses, the odds are good that you can solve your issues without harmful medications or expensive psychoanalysis.
The consequences of this self-defeating behavior may include the following:
People don't like you. If you feel isolated or disrespected, your self-defeating behavior is why.
You don't like yourself, because of your self-defeating behavior.
Your defense mechanism is to engage in your self-defeating behavior. This sets up a self-sustaining vicious cycle, in which you are currently trapped (this course teaches you how to use an appropriate response and break the cycle).
The dynamic of many relationships with others is that of a contest rather than one of cooperation. This means others fight you, one way or another.
Your response of your self-defeating behavior merely fuels this, creating a self-sustaining vicious cycle.
People often avoid any real discussion with you (on specific topics that trigger your self-defeating behavior), because they already know how it will go.
Others may give in to avoid triggering your self-defeating behavior, but later they find ways to disagree silently and/or undermine you (the are exhibiting passive-aggressive behavior, which is self-defeating for them).
You may have the appearance of "winning" or getting your way, but you actually lose it in terms of eventual outcome.
People who interact with you feel almost obligated to work against you. And they may not even realize it consciously. Your self-defeating behavior has tapped a primal self-defense mechanism in them.
Folks who could volunteer to help you, don't.
Your self-defeating behavior turns them off or you send involuntarily negative signals because you are relying on your ineffective self-defeating behavior instead of using effective coping skills. This course will show you how to use those skills.
How It Works
Each course follows the same protocol used in short-term professional psychotherapy. The notable exception here is this course is self-treatment. Whereas you could expect 4 or 5 one-hour sessions with a psychotherapist, the self-treatment approach will take more time and require more self-initiative. But, you won't be paying $200 per hour for five hours this way, either.
As with any form of psychotherapy, your journey along the healing path may not end with this course. However, note these two facts about this kind of treatment:
The success rate is very high, for people who make an honest effort to work through the therapy.
The therapy lays the groundwork for a stronger method of treatment, if needed.
This course is one of a series developed by Dr. Jay Prince, licensed psychotherapist. They are now licensed exclusively to Mindconnection through his widow. During his lifetime, Dr. Prince treated many patients who needed to overcome a problem through psychotherapy. Dr. Prince also had several corporate clients, who came to him for solving dysfunctional situations within their companies.
Dr. Jay Prince, the developer of our behavior courses, passed away in 2001. This was a rapid cancer that claimed him well before old age.
Dr. Prince’s courses changed the lives of many of our customers, giving them new direction and new hope. In his private practice, Dr. Prince helped individuals overcome problems that kept them from leading the fulfilling lives they deserved. He also consulted to corporations, helping them to develop more humane, rewarding, and productive workplaces.
Working with Dr. Prince was a pleasure, knowing him was an honor. He wanted his courses priced so the average person could easily buy one and begin the journey to recovery. His portion of the proceeds now go to his widow and children.
Going this route--the self-treatment via Dr. Prince's course--will save you money for three reasons:
You pay a one-time fee for the course, rather than $200 an hour for 4 to 6 hours
If this therapy solves your problem, that's your total cost.
If short-term therapy can't solve your problem, you have determined that without spending $200/hr.
Our Behavior Modification Courses put you in charge of what happens in your life. From corporate consultant and psychologist Dr. Jay Prince, you'll learn scenarios for success: how to conquer traits that hold you back.You can complete the course in the privacy of your own home, and be on your way to a richer, fuller life.
Or, you can continue to do things that make you and those around you unhappy. The choice is yours....
These courses contain excellent information, along with examples and review questions.
Would this purchase be a good use of your money?
If you were to go to a doctor's office for a series of appointments to get to the same point in therapy as you'd be upon completion of these behavior courses, you would be going for 3 to 5 appointments. That's an average cost of $800. OK, so why don't we charge $800 per behavior course?
This material gets you through the initial process--and that is often enough for most people with the kinds of problems these courses address. When you buy one of these courses, you're paying for the results you would get if you made those office visits at sharply higher prices. The downside is you don't have a physician to measure your progress and recommend further treatment or a different protocol.
These are not deep psychosis types of problems (like split personality, small animal abuse, etc.) but just problems people can address through short-term therapy. That's why many problems are not listed for self-treatment but these are. If you really want to solve your problem but just don't know how, these courses are your answer. You do need to set aside time, just as if you were making that appointment. A friend or relative can help you through the material, acting as your coach--but you can also work through the exercises on your own.
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